Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Thankful

I didn't participate in the Facebook "I'm thankful for..." game.  I enjoyed reading other people's thoughts (mostly) but I've met myself before, and I'm pretty sure that I could never post for 30 days in a row.  Well, I could.  I just don't think I would. 

Which doesn't mean, however, that I am not thankful for many things in my life.  I am so very, very lucky to have so very, very many wonderful things in my life.  An active, healthy family.  A steady job that I enjoy.  A warm and beautiful house. Good friends. You know the drill.  My cup certainly overflows. 

30 things I could have told Facebook I was thankful for......

1) The sass that is my daughter.  She drives me crazy and lights up my life.  All at the same moment.
2) The opportunity to watch Josh in class.  He's growing up, and I get a front row seat every afternoon.
3) That James is thriving in third grade, spending each day with his best, best friends.
4) My husband, who only complains a little that I am always planning his life out, minute by minute.
5) My family.  Parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, sister.  You know, the ones who get Medford.
6)  My friends. Cheese plates and wine and Diet Coke and lots of laughing.  And kids.  LOTS of kids.
7) The view out my back window. 
8) That my friend's trip to Ethiopia changed my world viewpoint in a lasting way.  Now, I want to go to Ethiopia, and I want to always remember what matters. And I didn't even have to pay for the plane ticket.
9) That other people keep supplying me with babies to snuggle.
10) That my new job pushes me out of my comfort zone. New places, new people, unanswered questions. And I haven't even died yet.  Who would have thought?
11) Power Hour.  James comes home with completed homework EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.  I could cry tears of joy just typing that.
12) A tight budget for the last three months. I'm glad to know we can and did live on a smaller budget as our finances adjusted from the whole purchasing a house while keeping the old one scenario.
13) The long season of bright red and orange leaves on trees this year.  So beautiful.
14) That my kids are looking forward to making Christmas stocking for other kids almost as much as they are looking forward to their own.
15) That we have a steady flow of kids at our house.  And that our kids join the steady flow of kids at other people's houses.  Living here is giving them the childhood I want for them.
16) Chocolate ice cream.  And Rocky Road.
17) That tomorrow night, I get to watch Love Actually to kick off the holiday season.
18) Kids who ask me to give them spelling tests and math problems.  For fun.
19) The fact that if you try hard enough, you will learn to love coffee.  Especially Pumpkin Spice Lattes.
20) That my husband makes dinner nearly every night.
21) Sunday afternoons, when my fridge is full and my house is clean.
22) Christmas decorations.  And Christmas music.
23) Being able to play a simple song on the piano.
24) DVR
25) Knowing that any given moment, there are at least ten people less than ten minutes away I could call on to help me or my kids. 
26) Listening to a rainstorm from my warm, cozy bed.
27) That my mom takes pictures to record the moments of my life.
28) That for $100, I got to own a sectional.  I've always wanted one, and suddenly the stars aligned.
29) For the first time in a VERY long time (well over a year) John will have off four days in a row.  We will be all together for FOUR days.  Sleeping in, Christmas decorating, hot chocolate drinking, relaxing days. 
30) Tomorrow, my entire family will come together in a warm house with more food than we can eat.  We will laugh and talk and be lucky.  And that's what really matters. 

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Solution!

John and I were talking about our days tonight while we made dinner.  At one point, I made a joke about something happening, and he said "I'd start looking for another job if that happened!"

Josh overheard the tail end of the conversation and started offering suggestions of new jobs to apply for...all in town, of course, and all reasonable ideas. 

Abby walked in half way through, and after listening for a minute, her face brightened....

Abby: Dad!! I know! You should work at McDonalds!
John: Well, that would be a pretty great job.
Abby: I know! Or! Or! Wal-Mart! You could work at Wal-Mart!
John: (with a hint of sarcasm) Thanks for those great ideas, Abby.  I'll keep that in mind.
Abby: (with nothing but sincerity and a smile) You're welcome, Daddy.  I always have great ideas. 

Oh, to be six years old.....

I know one thing for sure: I don't want to be the one to tell her we were only kidding.  Those two places may have no redeeming qualities, but to her? Those would be the coolest jobs EVER.

Monday, November 21, 2011

Halloween Fun!

Halloween 2011 was a rousing success at our house............

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Annual Pumpkin Carving! Yet another tradition that I have to force my husband into only to find that he likes it even more than I do.  Look at that concentration while he carves! He even has his tongue out a la Michael Jordan....

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Every time I tried to get a candid shot, she would catch me and pose.  Everything is a photo op for this girl.

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Seriously.  Getting a decent photo of these three is impossible.  Someone is always moving or tickling a sibling or complaining or making a goofy face.  This was the best of the bunch....

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My general rule for Halloween costumes is that I won't wear it if I won't look cute in it.  I want to be able to do my hair and makeup and wear normal clothes, which is why I'm usually a) a cat or b) a witch.  Clearly, I lost my mind for a few minutes for our annual Halloween party and by the time I regained my sanity, it was too late! We are each other in case you need a hint.....

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For Josh, any outfit that doesn't include athletic shorts is a costume, so hippie was as far as he was willing to go.  James is a skeleton death ninja or something like that.  A pretty sweet faced skeleton death ninja. And Abby? She's an undetermined "rock star."  As long as it included sparkles and makeup, she didn't care what she was.

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See? Sparkles and makeup.  Her dream come true. PS You guys, her eyebrows are a hot mess.  Any suggestions??? I'm not willing to wax them all off and start over yet, but I'm getting close!

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We decided to have pizza together and then go trick or treating as a herd this year.  We really do travel best in packs.  This picture makes me laugh for about three hundred reasons.  Trick or treating with friends made this, hand-down, the BEST HALLOWEEN EVER.  If I hadn't been near death (what? It's my blog and I can be melodramatic if I want to!) with a miserable, turning into a sinus infection cold, I would have enjoyed it even more, but for the kids?  It was pretty much the best night ever.

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Our house....

(Did anyone else start singing that Crosby, Stills and Nash song? Or maybe Young was in there too for that song?)

I loved our old house.  So very much.  It was the first house we purchased and the place where each of our babies joined our family.  I loved it so much that we stayed there way. too. long.  It was just hard to imagine being "us" anywhere else.  With all its imperfections, it was our home in the truest sense of the word.

I had to force the move to our new house.  John moved quite a bit growing up, and he really didn't want to have his kids moving around a lot.  He also wasn't looking forward to the actual act of packing up and moving.  And in the back of my mind, I was pretty nervous about living somewhere else.  What if it didn't feel like our home anymore?  But I pushed and pushed, and soon, we had purchased a brand new house.  A house with a bedroom for each kid and three toilets and a two car garage and a heat pump and around 850 extra square feet.  As we lived surrounded by boxes and I used up every spare minute of summer vacation packing, I wasn't exactly sure we were doing the right thing.

I didn't need to worry because I love it here.  It's just the perfect amount of space for us.  We always liked living in a small house because we were so close to each other.  Except, we were SO close to each other.  Our new house is not a mansion by any means, but every one can have their very own space.  Doors can be closed and peace and quiet can be had.  It's cozy and pretty, and the neighborhood is pretty darn great.

Every day when I come home from work, I am so happy to walk through the front door.  It feels like home, and I can't believe we have ever lived anywhere else. 

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If you are reading, and you live nearby, you can stop reading now.  A few people have asked for pictures, and even though these aren't great, you kind of see what it looks like.  We've added window treatments and wall decorations in some places, and you can't see cerain things like how gigantic our master bedroom is (seriously, it's kind of embarrassing)  and how pretty the views of the hills are from the back windows (so, so pretty.)
Front Room
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Kitchen
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Dining Nook
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Back Room
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Abby's Room
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Josh's Room
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Kids' Bathroom
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James's Room
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Master Bath
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Master Bedroom
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